Relationship Matters 4

 

"Eiiiiii, my past has finally caught up with me ooo"; Sayo entered sobbing.

"Babes, calm down, what happened? Why are you crying like this, what about your husband? Sade replied

"He threatened to send me packing after what happened?" Sayo answered her.

"I still don't get you, what really happened?

Alright, you are aware that we have been waiting on the Lord for a child of our own; so yesterday, we went to see a gynaecologist, and it was there it was revealed that I am the cause of our childlessness....... Eiiiiii, my past has finally caught up with me ooo 😭😭.......

Sade said to her, "what I still don't get is this past of a thing, what happened in the past"

While I was in the University, I lived a flamboyant life and committed several abortions, in the process, my womb got damaged; this was before I gave my life to Christ, I never knew a day like this would eventually come; "Sayo replied"

Hmmmm..... This is serious, but let me ask you this question, was your husband aware of all these before you got married?

No, he wasn't, I felt there was no need 🥺🥺😭

Yeah......... It's me once again and today we are going to be taking a quick look at how one's past can affect a relationship. You know, in this scenario, if Sayo had told her husband before getting married that this was what happened when she was still in the world; and the husband still felt led that she is the one that God has for him, then the situation wouldn't have been like this. Fine....... It's might be a difficult and tensed up for a guy to marry a lady like that, but remember she is now a new person and if God can forgive her of all her sins then that shouldn't be a problem, no one tlcan tell what would later happen in the future.

Listen, your past doesn't define you; and as far as you are now a changed person I bet you the right person will surely come without you having to hide what happened while in the past. 

It's actually a very dangerous thing to hide things from your partner, or let me put it this way, someone you intend to spend the rest of your life with. It's better you open up earlier, so that it won't cause conflict in your marriage.

You might feel there is no need but in some cases you just have to. You should be able to open up to your partner; and if that person is the right person for you, trust me he or she will stay. 

But that doesn't give a person room to go ahead and do things that will likely affect them in the future with the hope that the right person will remain after you have changed. And that is why it's very advisable for one to be mindful and careful of what you engage in, in this youthful or teenage age. 

Let's try to be sincere in our relationships😇😇

Well....... Let's call it a day here.

See you next week by the grace of God 🙏