Relationship Matters ❤️

 I welcome you all to a new week 😇. Alright, straight to the topic for discussion 💃💃

"IS LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP OR COURTSHIP ADVISABLE?"

Yeah......... So, a lot of people are of the opinion that long distance relationship isn't a good idea. Of course, they have their reasons which I also reason along with. Due to all the things involved in a long distance relationship like temptations from both sides 😌.

Hmmm........Well, to my own understanding, there is nothing wrong with being in a long distance relationship and that's why TRUST and COMMUNICATION is an essential key and ingredients in relationship. Before you get to this level of either long distance relationship or not, the foundation you build your relationship on comes into place. Did you build it on a foundation of trust and making sure to put God at the centre of your relationship.

Believe me, it isn't easy, temptations will come. Another thing that can affect long distance relationship is the reason you are in that relationship in the first instance, does it have marriage in view or you are just in it to while away time 🤦🏻‍♀️🤦🏻‍♀️. It all depends on each partner, you can actually make it work by not yielding to temptations especially if it is one that has marriage in view, but if you are in a relationship just for the fun of it, then I'm sorry you might as well just be playing with your emotions, because there is every possibility that your partner might not remain faithful to you😌😌. 

One other things that causes issues in long distance relationship is LACK OF COMMUNICATION. You are in a relationship and then a whole day passes without you checking up on your partner and then you say it's because of work related issues and you have been so busy....... To hell with that work 😂. Seriously, this is someone you want to settle down with in future and then you are placing your work above your partner.......Nah, things aren't done that way. 

Believe me, if you guys have a very good communication pattern and skills things would work out just fine 👌👌. You have to learn to build good communication with your partner✨✨. 

See, we are all humans and atimes to make a decision might seem tough but believe me if you put God at the centre of it all then you won't have any issue and if you as a person is determined to make it work, then you will do just fine. 

If you know you won't be able to sustain a long distance relationship and you only just want to enjoy the relationship while it's last.... then don't go into it at all.....  You wan break person heart 🥺💔.

Relationships or Courtship isn't something you should joke with, believe me ✨.

Finally, when I mean long distance relationship, I don't mean a relationship whereby you barely know the person probably you just hooked up online or whatever and you haven't met the person before......You just feel say sebi I love am na 😂( don't play with your future it's not just about love oo).

When I mean long distance relationship, probably you have known and met the person before and for a while; then probably some important things make you guys distant for a while; that doesn't mean you should continue like that actually, you guys can still reason together and resolve it within yourself on how to be together 😌😌.

I will be stopping here 😁😁,

See you next week 😊❤️