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"I have told you countless times that there is nothing going on between me and dupe. What else do you want me to say?"

"And how do you expect me to believe that. I call you sometimes and you won't pick, I message you and you won't reply and whenever you do you will always say you are busy; you always make me feel like I'm disturbing you or that I am jobless. This same dupe was the one who picked your phone when I called few days ago, and you expect me to believe you?"

Hi guys 👋😁,

Good morning. Hope our weekend was well spent? 

Today we are going to be discussing on things that causes lack of trust in relationships. From the little story above, we can deduce that there is lack of trust in the relationship and funny enough the guy might be saying the truth; but what made his partner not to trust him was:

1. Lack of Communication: When there is little or no communication in a relationship, your partner begins to doubt your sincerity. "Being busy" is not an excuse for you to neglect your partner's call or partner's message. Learn to create and plan yourselves. 

2. Trust issues: When you have trust issues that might have arose from past relationships, a person might equally find it difficult to trust even the one that intends to be serious with you. At times you might just remember that "after all guys have done for me in the past or after all what ladies has done for me in the past will I still be able to trust this person".

3. Not speaking or opening up: Some people are actually fond of this 😂, someone you want to build a real relationship with and then you can't open up to the person. You know deep down that there is something bothering you and then you keep it to yourself 😒; feeling there is no need to tell your partner about it. What if your partner starts having the feeling that you always keep things to yourself and you are not ready to open up, he or she begins to feel that you don't trust them enough to open up. 

4. Your past: When I mean "your past",  it has do with something that happened to you in the past and you are not willing to tell your partner. Though there are some people that feel that there is no need to tell their partner about their past and that by gone is by gone..... I don't know about that 🤷. But what I know that there are some things you still have to let your partner be aware of. If your partner finds out about what happened anyhow later, the trust he/she has for you might be broken. 

Trust is a very essential thing on relationships. In as much as it is essential, it takes time to build it. 

We'll be stopping here for today 😁. 

See you next week 👌👌

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