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Relationship Matters ❤️

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  I welcome you all to a new week 😇. Alright, straight to the topic for discussion 💃💃 "IS LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP OR COURTSHIP ADVISABLE?" Yeah......... So, a lot of people are of the opinion that long distance relationship isn't a good idea. Of course, they have their reasons which I also reason along with. Due to all the things involved in a long distance relationship like temptations from both sides 😌. Hmmm........Well, to my own understanding, there is nothing wrong with being in a long distance relationship and that's why TRUST and COMMUNICATION is an essential key and ingredients in relationship. Before you get  to this level of either long distance relationship or not, the foundation you build your relationship on comes into place. Did you build it on a foundation of trust and making sure to put God at the centre of your relationship. Believe me, it isn't easy, temptations will come. Another thing that can affect long distance relationship is the rea...

Relationship Matters 5

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  Yo, It's the beginning of a new week of productivity and we are gradually getting closer to the end of this month 💃💃. Alright, so today I am going to be answering a question; "Who is my Spec 😎?" A lot of ladies when asked questions like "What do you want in a man?". And then you hear replies like: "The guy must be handsome,tall, fair in complexion, must have broad chest 😂, must have six-packs😂, must be swimming in money.......Come on 😂; Sister!!!, Na that wan you chop 😂.  Don't get me wrong tho'...... Every lady wants a guy who is good-looking. Yeah........But your first priority in a guy should be one who fears God. Remember this person is going to be a father figure for your children in the Future. Now, a God fearing guy does not mean the guy must be the one that prays for 24-hours non stop or that when he prays fire falls or one who blast in tongues for a while day. Nah....... I am not saying it's wrong or it's not good for a guy...

Chasing After Your Dreams

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  While we were young, we tend to have this craving passion for a particular thing. Even as we grow up, we discover that we still have passion for that thing (it might be writing, addressing people at public places and lots more).  I remember when growing up as a kid I loved reading storybooks a lot 😂, then as time went on I started writing my own stories, I would buy 60 leaves Notebook and write till the book gets finished (tho' it wasn't published) and it usually gives me joy when writing it. But I stopped along the line, I didn't write again due to some things. Funny enough, here I am again still writing,this is what I  always loved to do☺️☺️. Tho' I am still on the journey to attaining my dream.  Why don't you pursue after your dreams. When you go after what you love doing most you will definitely put your mind and heart into it. But some people have given up on their dreams due to some challenges. You can still pick it up and that's why you have to be dete...

Relationship Matters 4

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  "Eiiiiii, my past has finally caught up with me ooo"; Sayo entered sobbing. "Babes, calm down, what happened? Why are you crying like this, what about your husband? Sade replied "He threatened to send me packing after what happened?" Sayo answered her. "I still don't get you, what really happened? Alright, you are aware that we have been waiting on the Lord for a child of our own; so yesterday, we went to see a gynaecologist, and it was there it was revealed that I am the cause of our childlessness....... Eiiiiii, my past has finally caught up with me ooo 😭😭....... Sade said to her, "what I still don't get is this past of a thing, what happened in the past" While I was in the University, I lived a flamboyant life and committed several abortions, in the process, my womb got damaged; this was before I gave my life to Christ, I never knew a day like this would eventually come; "Sayo replied" Hmmmm..... This is serious, but let ...